Frustrated wannabe roman

[TITVS SABATINVS AQVILIVS]

"I'm a member of this group" mentality may keep you from doing what you want to do.

I find it absolutely true: joining a group is really great, but if you're rightly expected to be fair and "faithful" towards it, you ought to maintain at the same a certain indipendence too. For example if you like an event, don't accept to avoid it just if your centurio says "no", but make you own kit for attending any "not approved" events or periods you like. I know good guys who should love to attend events or period prohibited by the group but they don't due to the fear of loosing the possibility to use the association kit: it's insane to me, just the scheduled training, reconstruction or events days of the group has to be respected, in other days: freedom!

Vale,